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Luai_lashire said in October 4th, 2008 at 3:12

Congratulations to Michelle!

I have also been the victim of the phenomenon you describe. I probably have exercise-induced asthma, but I don’t know for sure because my parents refuse to take me to a doctor. I once was forced to go biking with them, and when I collapsed on a long uphill stretch, hysterical, weeping, and unable to breathe, all at the same time, they prodded me with their feet and yelled, demanding that I get up and get on the bike again.
I also have dysmenorhia (I think that’s how it’s spelled), or excruciatingly painful menstruation, and I miss school every month because I can barely stand up. The school is not very sympathetic. Although I have a doctor’s note excusing me on any day I have my period, they don’t believe that it’s really that bad. As a result, a lot of the time I do try to go to school even when I really can’t, and end up having to come home halfway through the day feeling even worse.

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Autumn said in October 4th, 2008 at 17:59

I don’t think having to prove yourself not only comes with being disabled, but being poor. Being disavantated in some way. I’m proably asbergers but after a rather intersting life (most of it not in a school setting) I was diagnosed with ADD, CAPD (now called central audio processing something but not disease), dyslexia and one of the other dys’ that makes me say (and occasinally write) words out of order.
Most of these I can hide on any given day at work. But what really gets people is a) I look like I’m 14 and b) I’m fairly poor. I have to work very hard to get people’s attention, and to maintain that attention I have to work even harder not to make mistakes that are bound to happen becuase of my problems. I have a co-worker who finds it hysterical to mercisly rag on me becuase of this….even though I’m now her boss.

I hope more victories are won like this so people who are struggling in work (or in school) can be upfront and honest about disabilities.

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Famous Flower said in October 5th, 2008 at 16:14

“An employer has a duty to ensure”… “that ill perceptions about an employee’s condition”… “lead other employees to have negative and ill-founded perceptions about him.”

Doesn’t sound quite right!

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ballastexistenz said in October 5th, 2008 at 16:40

Probably a typo. I hope! (Reminds me of my IEP goal “to increase frustration level”, which was, well… honest of them, but not what they meant to write at all.)

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sanabituranima said in October 5th, 2008 at 21:13

No, increasing frustration levels is the standard goal of all IEPs.

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Lee said in October 6th, 2008 at 15:16

sanabituranima: Actually, I had an IEP throughout my educational career. Throughout at least most of it, increasing frustration levels wasn’t a goal.

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ballastexistenz said in October 7th, 2008 at 7:33

It’s a common unstated goal of IEPs, but it is not even remotely normal for it to be written on them or directly acknowledged in any way. When they wrote it, they were not attempting to come clean about their own stated goals. They were just being unintentionally factual.

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Ettina said in October 8th, 2008 at 16:15

I think what they meant was to increase your tolerance for frustration. But I doubt they were successful in that!

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